Conscious Conversations: Build real trust and connection — from grounded presence to soulful silence
When I meet someone, I rarely begin with “How are you?” —not because I don’t care, but because I wish to meet them beyond the veil of habitual speech. That simple question, though polite, often keeps us at the surface—floating in the shallow waters of social conditioning. I have found that real connection, the kind that awakens trust and resonance, begins not with questions of form , but with presence . Before the first word, I let silence touch the space between us. In that brief pause, our nervous systems align, our subtle bodies meet. Often, that moment says more than any question could. People are not looking to be asked how they are; they are longing to be seen . When I do speak, I may ask, “What moved you most this week?” or “What’s been nourishing your heart lately?” These are not techniques—they are ways of inviting the other person’s energy upward, from the survival pulse of Mūlādhāra (Yield) toward the expressive current of Viśuddha (Liberate). Words that awaken sharing ...