The One Who Comes to You: Serving Customers Without Losing Yourself

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The One Who Comes to You: Serving Customers Without Losing Yourself Pension day at the bank branch. The token display jumps from 47 to 52, the queue shuffles forward on plastic chairs, and the man who steps up to your counter has been waiting since the doors opened. He is holding a passbook in a plastic sleeve and a form that someone else filled in wrong, and two other counters have already sent him on. Before he says a word, something in you tightens: the jaw, the shoulders, a small voice that says not this again . You are polite. You handle it well, even. And when he leaves, you feel emptier than the moment deserved, a little irritated, and then a little guilty about being irritated, because you meditated this morning and it was supposed to help. If you work with customers, clients, patients or colleagues who need things from you, you probably know this pattern. The work itself isn't what wears you out. It is the hundred small moments a day when you serve someone while quietly ...
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Surrender

A person started to walk on a rope tied between two tall towers at several hundred feet above the ground. He is slowly walking balancing a long stick in his hands. He has his son sitting on his shoulders.

Everyone down were watching him in bated breath and were tensed. He slowly reached the second tower. Everyone clapped, whistled and welcomed him. They shook hands and took selfies.
 
He asked the crowd "do you all think I can walk  back on the same rope now from this side to that side?". Crowd shouted "Yes, Yes, you can". 

 *Do you trust me he asked*  They said yes, yes we are ready to bet on you.

He said okay, can any one of you let me make your child sit on my shoulder; I will take your child to the other side safely.

Everyone became quite. There was stunned silence.

Belief is different. Trust is different.  For Trust you need total surrender.

This is what we are lacking towards God and a Guru in today's world.

We believe in God and Guru. But we don't trust Him.

This too shall pass, trust & stay blessed forever.

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